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A Student-Friendly, Research-Backed Guide to Getting Back on Track

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The Holiday-to-Campus Whiplash Is Real 

Winter break is a strange wormhole. One minute you're sleeping like a hibernating bear and eating whatever counts as "a snack" at home, which may be an entire lasagna. The next, you're back on campus trying to remember how backpacks work and wondering why your inbox contains 74 emails marked "Important." 


Coming back from winter break can feel disorienting because your sleep schedule shifts, your routine changes, and suddenly everything ramps up at once. The "post-holiday slump" can be  a mix of many things/events including; disrupted sleep, loss of structure, financial stress, social whiplash, and the sudden return of performance pressure. It's not a personal failing; it's a predictable response to an abrupt environmental shift. 


This article offers a practical reset plan, not a "new year, new you" personality transplant. The goal is simpler: rebuild enough structure through daily habits so that your days stop feeling like slippery ice. You don't need to overhaul your entire life. You need a few anchor habits that make everything else a little easier. 


Why the Slump Happens (and When It's More Than a Slump) 


Breaks change your inputs: light exposure, movement, sleep timing, meal timing, social contact, and even stress levels. During the holidays, you probably stayed up later, woke up later, ate differently, and operated on a completely different schedule than the one your classes demand. When school starts again, those inputs change fast — often within a single day! But your body and brain need time to catch up. 


Many people feel low, irritable, restless, or unmotivated during the transition. You might notice difficulty concentrating, a sense of dread about returning to responsibilities, or a persistent tiredness that sleep doesn't seem to fix. These feelings are common and usually temporary, especially if you give yourself permission to adjust gradually rather than expecting instant performance. 

Important note: If you are experiencing persistent hopelessness, difficulty functioning, or thoughts of self-harm, this is not simply a seasonal slump. Please seek professional support through Student Wellness Services or a crisis helpline. You can also reach out to trusted friends or family, but professional care is essential in this situation. The strategies in this article are intended to support a typical seasonal transition and are not a substitute for professional help when more serious symptoms are present. For immediate support and options, see Queen’s Student Wellness Services’ Get Help Now page. 

 

The Reset Plan: 7 Days to "Functional Human" 

This plan is designed to be doable even if you're behind, tired, or anxious. You don't need to implement all seven steps at once. Pick the ones that feel most relevant to your current struggles and add others as capacity returns. The magic isn't in perfection — it's in consistency and momentum. 


Step 1: Anchor Your Sleep (Don't Perfect It) 

Sleep is the keystone habit because it affects focus, appetite hormones, mood regulation, and stress tolerance. When your sleep schedule is chaotic, everything else feels harder — decisions take more energy, emotions feel bigger, and even simple tasks become exhausting. The evidence-based move isn't "go to bed early tonight" — that often fails because you're not actually tired at the new bedtime. Instead, set a consistent wake time and let bedtime slowly follow. 


Mini-goal: Pick a wake time you can maintain within about 30–60 minutes every day for one week — including weekends. If your current schedule is wildly off, shift it 15–30 minutes earlier every few days rather than trying to snap it into place overnight. Your circadian rhythm responds better to gradual shifts than sudden changes. 

Light exposure helps too. Get some natural light within the first hour of waking — even a few minutes by a window or a short walk to grab coffee. This signals to your brain that it's daytime and helps regulate your internal clock. 


Step 2: Rebuild Meal Rhythm Before Meal Perfection 

When routines vanish, people often skip meals and then get slammed by hunger later. That pattern can amplify anxiety, irritability, and fatigue. You end up making worse food choices when you're finally starving, and the blood sugar rollercoaster makes focus even harder. 


A practical approach would be to prioritize regular meal timing, even if the food itself is simple. Your body responds well to predictable fuel, even if that fuel isn't Instagram-worthy. A boring breakfast you actually eat beats an elaborate meal plan you abandon by Wednesday. 


Mini-goal: Eat something within 1–2 hours of waking, and aim for a steady lunch window. It doesn't need to be fancy — yogurt and fruit, toast and peanut butter, or last night's leftovers all count. The goal is predictability, not perfection. 


Step 3: Make One Tiny Habit Sticky (Not Seven) 


Students often try to "fix everything" on Day 1 of a new semester. New workout routine, new study schedule, new meal prep system, new morning routine — all starting on Monday! This can be overwhelming and unsustainable over time. 


Research on habit formation suggests that small, consistent actions compound over time. The trick is choosing something so easy that you can do it even on your worst day. Once that behaviour becomes automatic — usually after a few weeks — you can add the next tiny thing. 


Mini-goal: Choose one behaviour that takes under 2 minutes for example: 

  • Put your phone on the other side of the room 30 minutes before bed 

  • Pack your bag before bed 

  • Open your calendar each morning before checking social media 

  • Write one sentence of an assignment before closing your laptop 


Use habit stacking by leveraging on already existing routines like going to bed to attach new habits. This helps by reducing the motivation and effort required to start and sustain new habits. Consistency is key.  

 

Step 4: Use Action Planning (Because Willpower Is Not a Schedule) 

Goal setting is helpful, but vague goals rarely translate into action. “I’ll study more” does not tell your brain when, where, or how that is supposed to happen. Action planning is more concrete: decide the specific time, location, and method for a behaviour, plus what you will do if the plan breaks. 


Example: “After my 10 a.m. class on Tuesday, I will go to the third floor of Stauffer Library and block 25 minutes to write an outline for my essay. If I am too distracted, I will move to a quieter spot or switch to a different task for 10 minutes before trying again.” 


This level of specificity reduces decision fatigue. You do not have to figure out what to do in the moment because you have already decided. Planning for obstacles also makes it less likely that you will give up at the first sign of resistance. 


If you want extra support turning intentions into a realistic plan, consider booking a peer or professional wellness coaching appointment. A coach can help you break goals into manageable steps, troubleshoot barriers, and stay accountable without relying on willpower alone. 

 

Step 5: Reclaim Your Environment (The Easiest Motivation Hack) 


Your space shapes your behaviour more than you realize. If your desk is buried under laundry and your bed is the only comfortable spot, guess where you're going to "study"? If distractions are within arm's reach and your materials are across the room, your brain will default to the easier option every time. When you set up your space to support focus, starting work costs less mental energy. 


You don't need a Pinterest-perfect room. You need: 

  • One clear "work surface" that isn't your bed 

  • Your most-used supplies within arm's reach 

  • Fewer visual distractions in your line of sight for example, your phone in a drawer or another room during focus time 


A 15-minute tidy can shift your entire week. Think of it as setting a trap for your future self — when Monday-morning-you sits down, everything will be ready. 


Step 6: Schedule One "Good Thing" Like It's a Class 


Break removes structure, but it also removes things to look forward to. During the holidays, fun was probably built into the schedule — events, gatherings, movies, sleeping in, the list can be endless. When school returns, it's easy to fill your week with only obligations: classes, assignments, work shifts and errands. The result is a calendar that feels like a to-do list with no rewards. 


Add one weekly appointment with joy — and treat it like a non-negotiable class: 

  • A gym class or intramural game 

  • Trivia night with friends 

  • A walk with someone you like talking to 

  • A meal with housemates where you actually sit down together 

  • An hour at the library café with a book that isn't for class/ coursework 


This isn't indulgence — it's mental nutrition. Having something to look forward to makes the obligations more bearable and protects against the slow drain of an all-work week. 


Step 7: Have a Fallback Plan for Bad Days 

Tough days will happen. You'll oversleep, miss a class, feel overwhelmed, or have a plan fall apart completely. The struggle isn't the tough day itself — it's letting one rough day cascade into a rough week because you have no recovery protocol. 

Your plan needs a "minimum viable routine" — the bare-bones version you can execute even when everything feels hard. This is your floor, not your ceiling. On a tough day, hitting the floor is a win. 


Try this minimum: Shower + eat something + complete one small task. That's it. That counts. You haven't failed the day; you've preserved the foundation. Tomorrow, you can build again. 


When to Use Campus Supports (Strategically, Not Only in Crisis) 


One of the smartest student skills is knowing what supports exist before you're drowning. Learn what academic consideration options exist, how to request them, and who to contact. Familiarize yourself with counselling services, peer support programs, and academic advising. These resources are most useful when accessed early — not as a last resort. 


If you're struggling with course load, mental health, finances, or living situations, there's almost always a resource designed to help. The challenge is knowing it exists and reaching out before the situation becomes a crisis. 


Your Next Step – How about including; Learn about one existing resource on campus beneficial for your mental health and how to tap into it.  

Pick just one step from this list and try it today. Not all seven — just one. Reset doesn't require perfection; it requires momentum. The goal for this week isn't to become a different person. It's to become a slightly more functional version of the person you already are. That's enough. That's the foundation everything else builds on. 


References 

  1. Health.com. (2023). Post-Holiday Blues: How to Manage, When to Seek Help

  2. Children's Hospital of Orange County. (2023). Post-Holiday Blues: Depression and Returning from Winter Break

  3. Mind.org.uk. (2023). My Tips on Returning to Work After the Holiday

  4. NIH News in Health. (2021). Good Sleep for Good Health

  5. Lally, P., et al. (2010). How are habits formed: Modelling habit formation in the real world. European Journal of Social Psychology, 40(6), 998–1009. DOI: 10.1002/ejsp.674

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